Should Women Ask Men Out?
February 2nd 2007 02:45
The feminist inside screams "yes"! That's what I'd tell any of my girlfriends...so why do I find myself wondering.....I used to see this guy that works in a coffee shop I walk past on my way home from work. We would play constant games of eye tennis...or did these games only exist in m y mind? Does this guy check out every girl that walks by, sits at the coffee shop sipping seductivley...was I simply a passing amusement to make the art of coffee making that little more stimulating? Anyway, life went on until a mutual friend, that also works at this same coffee shop, introduced us. I tried not to recall our previous, what an ex once called, "eye sex", so as to avoid blushing as we spoke. The next day I saw him at his work again and he offered me a lift home as he was finishing his shift. The walk to the car was great, I felt we really connected. As we approached the car he walked down the left hand side of the vehicle, I followed to steps behind perplexed, and said, "Isn't the drivers seat on the other side" as he opened the door for me he replied "yes"...and I thought chivalry was dead! As I guided him to my house we laughed and talked, and when the journey ended I was disappointed. He pulled the car over next to a patch of cement where it was easire for me to leave. I couldn't ask him, he didn't ask me....was it all in my head...? The complements, the looks, the smiles...the door, the ride...Is he that way with everyone? I have only officially known this guy for two days...and I don't know wether to ask him to meet me for a simple coffee or not because for once I REALLY like a guy and don't want to scare him off...........but the torture of blindly waiting and not knowing wether he feels the same seems far too painful...So, I have nearly decided to leave a note on his windscreen saying, "Do you want to meet up for a coffee sometime this weekend?" with my name and number. MEN, IS IT TOO EARLY? WOULD YOU PREFER TO ASK? WOULD I FREAK YOU OUT? WOMEN, HELP...WHAT DO YOU THINK?
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Comment by David
Hope you've got a good sense of humour and a bit of a dark wicked side happening under your skirt there ... ***
Me? I would have pegged you. You wouldn't have to ask. You start playing eye tennis and eye sex with me ... ? I'll ravage you. I'd open the back door ... shove you down on the back seat ... and ravage you with your clothes on ... Well mostly on .... It would depend on whether or not you were wearing pants or a skirt though ... Pants? Just down to the thighs thanks ... Skirt? Just panties down to the thighs ...
And depending upon which way you were facing when I opened the door? That would determine whether or not it was doggy or missionary ... ***
Just ask the bloody guy to peg you will you? ... But by the sounds of it? He's a little bit too metrosexual ... he'll probably blow in his jocks ...
You can delete this if it's a bit too full-on ... okay? I won't be offended ... people do it to me all the time ... ***
David ...
Comment by Veggie Orgasm
sounds like u guys have a bit of a connection here so go for it...don't let an opportunity slip away...u dont want to spend the rest of your life thinking, "what if?"
Sheetal